Ali - Cinco is a lot different than your H, I believe. Its hard to think of them in a comparative way, as I don't think there is much to compare.
I dont think they are the same either. Or that I am just like his Wife. That may not be his truth, but that is what the LD spouse hears. and my H never said fix yourself or I am fcuking out of here. I am just using how the setimnet comes across. I am not trying to argue either. I do hear over and over again on this board to throw the LD spouse away and this and that . I have been here since 06. I was/ am the LD one. The underliying tone of him being upset with her does make her feel threatened. Are you serious with this post ?
And no Cicno isn't verbally abusive. Hooray for that. I do have a brain DQ. I am not all t*ts and a**.
