Well, I did think of one more problem with "nice guys" -- lack of sexual assertiveness and confidence, asexuality, sexual passivity...
On that score, well, I've not seen much change...
WOW OT,
After all this time you and I are on the same page....
Thanks for the prior post and as for this one... I agree with you. But getting back to the "farming analogy"... you know how when you grow melons.. They may look ready but ya need to squeeze them to see if they are ready yet.... Well checking body language tonight my wifes melons are not ready yet. We had a great time at Bingo. But when we got there she kind of walked ahead of son and me. But there she did offer to go get me a hot dog. But walking out after again she walked ahead of son and me. I am sure that the Dares will lead into "intimacy" I am going to trust what I am doing. I am almost half way through this. Of course it is something that is never over but I have faith that it will become a natural way of life and not a "dare"
Well it is past my bed time
Have a great night everyone
Dr Love
Love is not a place To come and go as we please It's a house we enter in And then commit to never leave
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
