Right now you're putting alot of the onus on her. Based on what you were doing you were the one who needed to change first which I'm glad you're doing, but right now you're reaping what you were sowing.
She's in the position of the neglected spouse and it's obvious to see why. In fact some of it was emotional abuse that she's trying to shake off.
Give her time, make the interactions you have with her pleasant and friendly like you did when you first dated. It's going to be a very long road and it's up to you whether or not you are strong enough to hang on.
You're the one who wants to fix things quickly when it's taken years of her sacrificing to get to this point. It will take a long time for healing to even begin on her point. I believe someone said it takes one month for every year of marriage for things to heal and that's only if BOTH people want the M. Right now you're not even close.
Just stay patient and I hope you hang in there long enough for things to work out.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
