Beyond Surviving- Living Life Again

[Loving_Life]

So, just when I thought things might be rolling along smoothly for me- stbx is giving me a hard time again.

At the last minute before our Monday hearing, stbx now has 2pgs worth of additions and arguments re: our current settlement proposal. This hearing could have been a final D if stbx was in agreement on the settlement- but is now just a status check.
Basically stbx is trying to get maintenance from me, get me to cover all his bills and reduce the amount he would have to pay me for the equity.(I'm not holding the assets or even a job!- Stbx has the house and a part-time job) Stbx's income strategy is not to get a job but to get other people to pay for him (he's been doing this for years. I was previously paying for our bills when I lived with him and had FT jobs. Now he's trying to use this D to get an income increase and have me pay off all our bills) My L thinks it's a joke, but unfortunately this just means things drag on. I'm sure this happens in a lot of cases, but how unbelievable.