Hey k,
You are at least 36 hrs. from the exit interview. I hope you are calmer by then. I thought the reason for the exit interview is to end all this civily?

I believe I mentionned a few days ago that I am of the opinion that your H (and others who have attempted piecing like my ex) once they realize that they are not sure they want to go on, make it unbearable for us LBSs. They do this in order to loose the guilt. They do not want to have the impression that they quit twice. Voila, "HE FEELS THE SAME WAY TOO" of course he does. Funny how they have such a selective memory.