We had another milestone moment last night. We were talking about something and the topic of ML came up. She told me she knows I would prefer to be doing it 2-3 times a week, but she was still getting used to doing it once a week for now. I told her I understand completely, it is quite a jump for us.
She seems to have accepted once a week as a starting point for us. It's weird though, because I never specifically told her that, I just started initiating on weekends. I guess she drew her own conclusions.
She told me that eventually once her school is done with she will be more open to ML on weeknights. Wow! I never anticipated that!
The whole conversation was very light, we joked around a lot throughout, it was a very positive conversation and reinforces that the changes I have made and continue to make are changing our entire dynamic.
Feeling really happy about it today.
Spellfire aka Mike
"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A
