I had a post and then ( my D10 and S9 are sick ) and I closed the window. Anyway. I agree with B~ Please don’t put her in a box or throw the baby out with the bath water.
I disagree with DQ~ Sorry D. I have been in Mrs Cincos shoes. { Didnt you leave once before Cinco?} It fcuking hurts, it is confusing and it seems no matter how hard you try you cant get it right and your h still seems unhappy. When my H told me he wanted to leave b/c I wasn’t sexual enough?
I thought what a fcuking coward. I put up with p q and x y and z and he is going to leave me for sex?
I know part of it is she does not “get” that she is the "beauty" you seek, you desire and you want. It isnt just about sex or excuse my French,,,,,,,,," P*ssy" !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
For a long time that is all I thought I was worth. My P*ssy or my sex. ????????? It sucked. I tried the sexy clothes, I read everything zi could get my hands on. I wantd to take Testosterone for Gods sake. Because I was LD frigid and a lost cause.
WRONG.
I woke up from my Coma and realized that I am the beauty my H seeks. It isnt my P8ssy or the way I give head or how flexible I am . It is ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
DO NOT GIVE UP~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ She deserves some compassion. How scared or hurt must she be to have to say. Prostitutes… Wow.
I wil share this with you here. Me MRS so called LD? You know the famous 69 position? While hubby was here? He was sitting at the edge of the bed and I was facing him in this position and my head was down by ‘”him”. His mouth was on my V. I was in a hand stand so to speak if you can picture this. We did not see it in a book it just came to us. I was then able ( I am flexible ) to open my legs and I looked beautiful to him. I was moving like the dancers in Cirque de Soleil. It was so beautiful that day or sexual union. WE had a beautiful time. It was so much more than bump and grind. It took three years of blood sweat and tears and not giving up. Little Miss LD, and he told me was happy so very happy and we were both ready to cry. That is real love and progress. I just know you can have this too. ~*~ You love her Cinco, listen to B~ She is trying damn it. I honestly am getting upset and teary eyed thinking of how frustrated she must feel at times. I have compassion for her cause she was me 3 years ago. It hurts to have someone tell you you are broken and if you cant fix yourself at my rate then Fcuk you , see you later. It rips you apart. When you are done you are done, please stop threatening her unless you are going to leave. It hurts like hell. It never did anything to make me feel sexy. Quite the opposite actually. All my best to you Cinco, Ali
