Guys, marriedCrazy, Vdad Thank you. I do think now that detachment is the only way out. These two and half years I was spending all my time and all my money on my family. My money will continue be at their use but I should step back and let her, as painful it is, to compare me with OM. Do you think it is a nice idea to talk to her about this tomorrow? Tell her that I love her and will love always, but I will not cross the doorstep of her apartment as soon as I move out. I will tell her that she has all the freedom and that her husband is patiently waiting. And only ask her not to see OM. Or this last thing I should leave out?
