So now I have a choice (i) continue do what I was doing for past two years and be a nice guy and pray that this apparent date with OM will not end at his house (ii) Check her received calls, track a person who calls her and confront him
(iii) Calmly let your wife know that what she is doing is NOT okay with you, but that she's an adult and you can't control her, you can only control yourself, and so you're "moving on" and working on YOU.
