I don't think so, but you have to deal with the outcome, so if you think it feels like you're ok with the big D then change it up. Let's pretend this....the person who wrote this is the head of a family that is going to be moving across the country and not everyone in the family is happy about it, but with the economy like it is, you have to do what you have to do for your family.
Or maybe someone in this family is really sick..... I think there is more than one perspective on this
