I thought that I'd be happy with once a week. Now I know I don't want "calendar sex." I want to have intimacy all the time. The kind of intimacy that is open and that makes frequency a non-issue.
I think it's maddening when I read on these posts, "Geez. We just did it X days ago." That just highlights that they don't get it. Neither party would be monitoring frequency if there was true intimacy.
Intimacy=closeness. Intimacy=what we all give of ourselves on this board.
Maybe we should be writing to our spouses more so that we can be more careful about what we express. Maybe take some of our post material and edit it into a letter. I know you've done a letter already. I just wonder if it should be more frequent. Like a blog just between lovers.
I don't know. Like I said, I'm sleep deprived, so I'm not thinking clearly at all. I have a bad case of foghead. Why do I feel blue when I'm sleepy? Hate that.
