Mindblank #2 - "Stuck as friends..."

[ernest88]

FML

if this means

Usually that's F*** my life.

then I can see why you are where you are and I'll be quite blunt..your sitch will not improve..

because FML..is a pity party..I'm sorry but it is...

I have a friend here who SMW knows well...if you knew his sitch..if you had any clue what his life was....then you would truly know FML...and he has been doing this for a year...ONE YEAR and is nowhere near finished yet..if what you post is truly your sitch..then IMHO you have it made...you have no papers filed..you have a friendship with your spouse...you are in the same house.....a lot of us don't have that....it could be much worse..

lets' see...you could be

1. in separate houses
2. your H could have an OW
3. you could be in the throws of bankruptcy
4. you could have D papers in hand

you have none of that.....

your attitude will carry you and will make your sitch...your husband can detect FML..a country mile away..he can detect it in your voice when you are on the phone with him ..I guarentee it..he can detect it in an email, a letter..he can detect it when you fart..

Positive is the only way to be...even if it's an act...

Positive can change your life...it changed mine..