Did somebody try to confront other man? We have been separated since 10/2006. I can not even say haw much I love my wife and my daughter, and all this time I was revolving around them. Last big thing that I did is that I bought a house (hoping very much that my wife will live with me there), and before the closing on this house I moved, temporarily, in my wife's apartment. She never promised me to reconcile, but I always acted as we are going to be together no matter what. I was not too annoying, but apparently I was not giving her enough personal space, either. The thing is that smb calls her every night on her cell phone, and she goes to most remote walk-in closet in her bedroom and talks there a lot, an hour each day. Obviously I was not asking her anything, trying to be the nice guy, who she is comfortable with. Today at a lunch time I saw her in the closet again, she was talking by phone, and then she told me that she is going shopping and will be back no earlier than in three hours. My story is posted at: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...&gonew=1#UNREAD
So now I have a choice (i) continue do what I was doing for past two years and be a nice guy and pray that this apparent date with OM will not end at his house (ii) Check her received calls, track a person who calls her and confront him
Please advice
Art
Me- 37 Wife 35 Daughter 4 Married 15 years, separated 2y
