Pearl,

Wow, what a turn around huh?

You are getting some great feedback from everyone here and as I have not been in your position, it's not something I feel qualified to comment on.

Whatever you choose, I know it will be right for you and you will have a much better life for the experience you are going through.

I'm rooting for you, whether it be in SF or not!!

Me: 50
W: 45
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WAW 15/8/08

Now living it large