Over the Shock - Detaching and GALing

[Thinker]

Sandi,

In a post to Rzrbkfn you said your husband helped you a lot by agreeing to never talk about OM again - thereby helping you to start moving forward by removing the fear of those painful conversations.

I am wondering if and when I should do the same thing. I have largely dealt with it myself, and would be happy to just forget it and move forward.

Unfortunately, since in my sitch we NEVER have R discussions (last one was weeks ago when we had our last joint MC session) I would have to start an R discussion just to be able to say it.