Hey BND...No you didnt scare me off, I truly listened to what you said.

The thing is I know I have to do something different. But i have done all things from ignoring him, to being his friend, to just talking about kids and finances and everytime he does this. I have done all the 180's.

Whenever he has told me he wants to move back home I guess I have always listened to him and he listens to me and my concerns. I have enforce boundaries in the past.

Now the only thing different I can think of to do is to say NO, you cant come back....ever? And I cant do that. I just cant make myself say it, I dont want it.

Ugh. sigh....

Kissak

"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3
M-37 H-37
S-10, D-15
M- 1993
First bomb- 12/23/06
Came and went too MANY times!
Gone again 10-25-10