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Ok is good. It's a lot better than other options. She may have checked out of the marriage long before you realized. I had no idea how unhappy my H was until he dropped the bomb on me. And even with hindsight, he hid it VERY well.

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So now what ?

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You tell me.
What do you want to do?
Considering you can't force her hand or any part of her for that matter.
What do you want to do about the charges?
What do you want to do about proposing a family night so the family can be together for some interaction. I think, and I don't know for sure, that it might help ease the anxiety your children may have.

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She won't agree to be near me . I guarantee .

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So try it. When she says no, there will be a new plan of attack.

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I need some magic words !

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Wife,

Hope all is well.
I have been considering what to do to make sure this whole process is as easy on our children as possible. In speaking with some friends I've been given what I think is a great suggestion. Would a family night be something you would consider? We could start slowly with maybe just one night for maybe just a couple of hours, maybe dinner? We'll agree to keep the topics light and easy going.
Let me know what you think. It was explained to me and it makes sense that if the kids see us getting along, it could relieve a lot of stress for them.
Thanks for considering this opportunity to help our kids,
Me

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Am I not acknowledging here that the divorce is okay with me ?

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I don't think so, but you have to deal with the outcome, so if you think it feels like you're ok with the big D then change it up.
Let's pretend this....the person who wrote this is the head of a family that is going to be moving across the country and not everyone in the family is happy about it, but with the economy like it is, you have to do what you have to do for your family.

Or maybe someone in this family is really sick.....
I think there is more than one perspective on this

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