I am glad you posted as I was a little worried I had scared you off after I read your last post.

Kissak, you have to do something different.

Do a total 180.

How have you normally reacted when he has decided to move back home again?

Have you ever enforced any boundaries?

There can be no testimony without a test.
I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.