Sorry for leaving you for so long...you've had great company tho and some good advice.
Seems like W is feeling a little left out from all the fun you are having. Her life must seem REALLY sucky up to yours.
This may be her way of trying to join in but remain non commital.
Go with the flow I say, don't encourage nor discourage, play everything as it feels right at the time.
Interesting though. My NC has had completely the opposite effect, W is further away than ever, I am grateful for that though. S21 told me today that she seems miserable a lot of the time...poor thing...NOT
You just take your time with everything mate and it will find its own way to you.
