Walk Away German Wife (WAGW)

[PortlandDad]

Hi stuck, yeah I do need a dose of humility.

I do want my M to work, but I realize that it is my W that needs to change the most to make that happen. I am making the changes and GAL that I needed to do so that we can eventually reconcile, but as I said before: right now she is not the person that I would want to spend the rest of my life with, and the changes that need to happen in order for that to happen are largely on her right now.

My perfect family would have the two of us make the following changes.

Me
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1. Need to be more attentive.
2. Need to be more helpful around the house.
3. Need to prioritize my W and Kids above work and play.
4. Need to be more motivated and take more responsibility.
5. Need to be more loving to my W.

Her
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1. Need to be more truthful and transparent.
2. Needs to come home.
3. Needs to want to work on the M and Family.

I am handling the changes that I need to make, both for myself and for my ideal family scenario. I have to put my faith in God that she will make the changes, eventually, that she needs to make.