Yoyo, You have the patience of a Saint and I know you want to wait it out BUT as long as OW is in the picture; he will never truly belong to you again.
Every day he goes into that office it is like an alcoholic sitting at a bar and trying not to drink. Each time he gets annoyed at you -- boom he is back with her.
Every time he is nice to you; OW is saying that he is detached from you.
Every time he is nice to OW; you are saying he is detached from you.
Is that why you chose "yoyo" which is what H is doing.
We support you and I know you have a great chance at being a success story.
You need to fight the battle to win the war. No contact, go dark. Tell him that you are trying to preserve the love you still have for him by not seeing him because of OW. I have some good examples of these letters.
Look at your first post on this thread at Christms time when you were excited about H giving you SUV. You thought that he was finally coming back and it turned into more of the same.
We care about you. Really. I know I do my best when I get those 2x4s sometimes.
Take care...
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
