Hey M, How strange.. he said he isnt sure its legal?? Whats not legal? THey're his flippin kids! If a wife offers 50% custody, I dont suppose the man would turn that down (look at Rob here fighting for more time).. I guess its because of practicalities, but why does he need to see his lawyer about it !? is he going to fight you for LESS custody!? Thats got to be a first, surely.
I dont know what to say, you are angry and upset again... I said before that I felt there still hadnt been any honest communication between you and now you are pushing the D and there still hasnt been. Your C said he had things to tell you, so he must have spoken of issues/feelings to her, you met him yourself but it all went unsaid whilst he played with his coffee cup. Have you told him you feel mad and upset and like a fool? Why keep it to yourself? Tell him how you feel?
I'm sorry, I dont know what to say, I dont understand any of this anymore, human behaviour, it all seems so perverse to me! (not you, him)
