Actually that is a fear I have, if we decide to get back together down the road, I am sure he will be bringing big debt back with him....esp. with the house remodel.
In the past week I have had dreams about Dan on 4 different nights. They started just with him deciding he wanted us to reconcile, him telling me, us hugging/holding each other. Each time they have progressed a little more in terms of the physical part. Guess 6 months of no fun time makes your mind wander? Just bothers me a little because the dreams are great then I wake up and realize we DIDN'T get back together...