ok thank you kel. If he decided to leave, should I say nothing? we have no kids so there would be no contact.

I know it looks like I'm not listening, I am. I will re-read everything you are all telling me. My friend was just saying how at xmas he was saying how great I was to her husband. So sad this has happened but it has.

I need to sleep.

Thank you for helping. you're an angel x


H 36 2nd marriage
me 32 1st marriage
no kids