Mr. Lost, Are you sure you want to leave? Are you sure that is the right thing for you? Remember: I took a HUGE gamble when I left, forcing my H back into the house alone. One of the things for us is that he HATES to be alone and right now, he's physically alone which weighs on him greatly, gives him time to think. You really really need to think this through and know it's the right thing for you. Maybe you could put a time frame on it? A time when you would return....????