Am I in denial or is it MLC?

[peacetoday]

regrets

a lot of Counselors do not either believe in MLC or understand it
our C said the same,its not MLC
you will figure it out as time goes on

We all feel we caused it the breakup..if we were only better,
this is not true
the MLC happens anyway

I also went thru a lot of reflection, noticing all I did wrong in the M
I also made amends to my H later for my part in the failure oif our M
Bottom line is nothing can really make them wake up
they have to go thru the journey on their own
it is sad
but
we hold on to the thought that maybe there can be a R later and in the mean timne we let them go
we grow into the best people we could be
I spent 2 years allowing my H to come and go here at my hgouse
I was as supportive and caring as a wife could be given the circomstances
that was my amends to him for my part of thr failure
that was my best shot at trying to make him see what we could have
He still is not ready to return
I have to keep going without him now detaching and setting boundries
you will make it thru
hold on
peace