Regrets, I don't really know if you want to have a R talk right now. You can tell he is confused, and having a R talk at this point...I don't know that they will help anything, and may just make things worse. He has no idea what is going on in his head, why he feels like he does. It is scary. My H says he has never not known what he wants and it doesn't make any sense to them why this is happening. Your H may not be able to give you any specific reasons either.
Just relax and take some deep breaths. Don't push anything.
