thank you all. I haven't said I love him or really persued. Counsellor doesn't think its emlc, or depression. He said he sold business and now is peeling back the layers like an onion. He said we need to decide solutions.

I just can't understand.

All my friends say it's affair but then why wouldn't he just tell me. I said to him that would make it so much easier


H 36 2nd marriage
me 32 1st marriage
no kids