Right, I've decided. I want to fight for this marriage more than I need to.
I spoke to him and said I'm sorry that I didn't letter you tell me 'what was in your head' his words, I said what I would like is for you to try if you can and explain why you think we can't move on from it. I said there are no right or wrongs and I really want to try understand from his point of view. He said ok, said he was going to gym and would get us bread and stuff for tea. I said that sounds lovely.
Will we set each other a 15 min or 30 min timer each? or go with the flow