Pearl..I totally agree that it is a nice feeling to have some control over your sitch my friend!! That's very smart to wait until YOU feel ready to take the next step, whatever that may be!
I hear you on the anger and think you have every right to be and it's sort of like JD's sitch in that we've all been like "wait to see if the actions back up the words"..so you are so smart to just watch and think and mull things over
Hope you have a good night's rest!
Tawnya
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