Hi PM, you always put things so beautifully. I was looking around for something about "trading down" or "affairing down" with the Ow. It basically says that when H finds other woman he is not looking for best looking and if that happens it is mostly by accident. What he is looking for is someone to feed his ego and look up to him and meet his emotional needs. But for the H he has basically "traded down" because even though the OW is meeting his needs she is also cheating and basically has lowered her own standards. I will have to look for it.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
