Oops!!.......I think I've dropped the rope!!

[Silent Chrleader]

Issues with S17 continue........H was all ready to give up on him again yesterday, but C was successful in calming him down, and today, I was the one at the end of my rope with S17, and H actually was understanding and kept a cool head and calmed me down!!

My conversations with H are actually getting almost friendly! In a conversation I had with him yesterday, I had a little backslide sort of. We were talking about the bankruptcy and the fact that I will lose my military benefits a year after divorce (which I told H really concerned me, and was annoyed when he told me he had already known that they only lasted a year). Anyway, I asked H if he ever even thought about not getting a D. He said "No.".......and then said "But then I don't think about getting a D either."...... I had to laugh at that one.

He said he was just really content with were he was right now and just going to take it one day at a time. I told him I was pretty content right now myself. He then told me that he knew I had concerns that he was going to "screw me over", but that wasn't going to happen. I know that can certainly change, but I am grateful for that sentiment right now.

It seems like he is really happy like he says and is probably not ever going to entertain the idea of a reconciliation. That saddens me, but I am happy for the cooperation we have right now for S17 and our financial sitch.