You are getting some world-class advice in this thread. The only thing I can add is my hearty agreement to what Robx, InLikeFlynn, and all the others have said: take care of yourself and your kid first and don't worry so much about your W.
Me40 WAW37 M18 T20 S18,14 D13 EA Bomb 6/08 Sep 11/20/08 Ret 08/09 Sep/Filed 11/09
