Is it not well documented that the WAS can often become the LBS and that usually happens once the original LBS detaches and becomes indifferent?

Doing small acts of service would not be detachment in my books, because that means you noticed what she put in the bin. Indifference would never of noticed what was going on. As a woman I look for small acts like fixing a pencil as a sign of caring and availability and therefore control for me. so let me keep abusing you .....

I would do nothing for her.