Am I in denial or is it MLC?

[peacetoday]

Regrets
HI. Sorry you find yourself here, but it is a good and safe place to come , vent and learn about MLC while you go through it
Your story sounds typical for this board
MY experience was similar
Usually it happens all of a sudden
the LBS knows nothing then the bomb
they say MLC is a developmental stage and it has to do with unfinished childhood issues
But
The WAS blames the wife for his unhappiness
my H said he wantwed to find his own map--didnt want to follow the norm anymore
be aware and this is very important..many do not find out until too late
watch and cover your finances
Many of these was spend like no tomoorow
I thought my H was different until 2 years into this he almost busted our business..if not for my Brother who works there, I would have lost it all
So even though things may not be our of control yet financially..protect yourself
credit cards, home, bank acoounts
watch it all closely
as far as your H
try to just be supportive
from what ive seen here and my experience, they almost always
seem to have to leave to find themselves
some return
try to take care of yourself..I know how it hurts ..remember it isnt your fault
you did not cause his MLC
you cant stop it or control it
you can only take control of you- thereapy may help for you right now
MC may not help at this stage
we went post bomb buit it was too alte, H was already one foot out the door
good luck
peace