Well, H came by for his "visit" while I was at work. When I walk through the house I feel like a CSI agent looking for evidence. He took the trash - this is something he's been doing since he left. We're out in the country, no trash pick up. I'd also left the letter from his credit card company denying his request for a higher credit line on the kitchen counter - it's gone (I made a copy of it to have at mediation). I suppose he noticed the storm damage, but probably not the downed tree since it's leaning against the back of the house. The remote control was in a different place than I usually have it so he must have tried to turn on the TV - this means he knows the satelite dish is out and that I haven't been able to watch TV. If he was curious, then he stepped outside to look at the dish - then he would have noticed the tree. He let the dogs stay out for awhile because they were sound asleep when I arrived - not their usual hyper selves. Some candles and flashlights are still sitting out so if he has any brain cells left at all he knows the power went out.

My friends are appalled that he did not call to check on me during or after the snow storm. I just tell them it's in the script.


Me 56
H 47
Married 21 years
No children
Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself".
Ow Bomb 8/07
H filed 6/08
D final 2/05/10