Karen, I can't believe it! I am a stay at home Mom also and OW is a workaholic lawyer as well!
That is so weird!!!
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And I had to ask myself some very difficult questions. What kind of person am I? Am I a hypocrite? Would I sink to his level and hurt the one that I proclaim to love forever? I had to really look hard and make decisions to not hurt anyone, to preserve my dignity and let karma and God take care of the rest.
I think a lot like that too. I think your H is such a fool!!!! I predict at some point he's going to kick himself!!!
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I don't think there is a right or a wrong in this matter. It's more of a question of whether you think your M is salvagable or not.
I agree. Do you think your M is salvagable or not? I kind of think most are, but you have to have 2 people willing to work on the issues, so until that happens I wouldn't have to worry about it. I think when you have kids, you also have to act differently about it and try to keep a good R no matter what happens, or at least I try to.
