4 weeks ago, I and though H were very happy. Planning to emigrate next year, H just sold his business which he hated, moved to another job which he seems happy in. Hadn't slept well for a couple of weeks, blamed on work issues selling business
The bomb. am we m/l and cuddles all afternoon. I went out with a friend, came home, H shouts me up for a cuddle then an hour later said he doesn't love me.
Gone was the man who would text me the most loving words. We would go to bed together, kiss and just grab one another for a hug. He would tell me I made everything ok.
Yes, we had silly fights but never slept apart.
I've bit my tongue, not persued, he came to MC, started staying out all night, def no one else involved even E/A
Still making dinner and sending texts asking what I want, no affection. Won't tell me what is wrong, needs space so I give him space.
tonight he comes in, said it's not working. He seemed relieved and said he just wanted me to know where his head was.
I asked what was the problem, he said lots of things but can't put his finger on it.
Said I can't handle that he has been married before (I swear he has exaggerated it)
2 I'm never happy with shopping if he forgets something
3. I've been nasty in past when drunk
He said since selling the business, it cleared his head to realise that I was the problem. Not the business which he used to call in sick to all the time, text me constantly about how much he hated it.
He does seem happier at times but when talking to me looks sad and confused.
Am I in denial. He said I've been good wife?? that it's not just me but doesn't know what.
I asked why he didn't say something and he said he was trying to fix it himself.
I'm not perfect but oh my god, this is total bolt from the blue
