Please do that. You sound like they do when hit with an R conversation. lol.
Your meeting her for a specific purpose right? No need to spin about a bunch other shitt. Focus on the purpose and the task at hand.
You have plenty on your plate as it is, this pressure is coming from you. Remember you have control over you right? Don't give that to her or anyone else.
No you shouldn't have let her pick the time or place too. She asked you damn it. You have a while to collect that confidence that I KNOW you have. NO spinning just preparing.
This is NOT a mistake this is good. You are meeting with her.
Slow down grab a bite to eat and holler in a bit. She make act like an alien but she's not gonna tear your face off or anything.