He just came in to tell me it's not going to work. Said nothing makes me happy, and not accepted he has been married.


I listened to him and he just said sorry.

I said don't be sorry but don't say this is because of your ex, it's not fair because I never brought her up.

I know I wasn;t supposed to but that is not right. I said don't throw away our marriage because of these excuses. I didn't cry, plead or pressure much.

He said we would talk again.

Still looks and sounds confused but maybe i'm in denial.

What to do.

I'm very calm.


H 36 2nd marriage
me 32 1st marriage
no kids