Anytime. How old are your kids and how many do you have? Just a month or so ago I was able to drop exH off of my signature line and the circumstances of his betrayal as well. I decided it didn't help to hold on to the "crud" any longer. He no longer defines me or my family.
You are going to have good days and bad days. The first time you laugh you will be surprised. I had to post about it. Let it out here. We have all been there to some degree and there are so many to offer advice(I know that is sad in itself). Take time away if you need to but know that people will wonder where you are or what you are doing.
My s16 hates to see me cry now but I really don't know how I would have made it without him. I think it made him grow up a little faster than I would have liked but he also understands what happened and what is going on now.
hugs, kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
