Jeff,
She wanted to have a discussion w/you about him, i.e., heated one. She wanted a justification for what she's doing. She wanted you to be disgruntled so that she could point the finger and say "see, Jeff was an angry man, someone I couldn't talk to." Don't give her that satisfaction.

BTW, the emotionally detach quite a while from us before the ILYBNILWY. It's there way of saying...it was over a long time ago and see no harm in dating, etc. while still married and in some cases living under the same roof.

What do you do? Stay the course, live your life to the fullest and know that no matter what she's said, you know what your life together was like. As yourself this...was it live or memorex?


Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.