I wished you would post that to every LBS that I have told to stop focusing on their spouse and focus on themselves! It will drive you crazy and you will get paranoid about everything said and done.....or not said and done!

Glad you didn't say anything. That would have been pie in your face, huh?

Detaching is awful, but it is for the health of the LBS in every way possible.....and it is for the sake of the WAS, too, b/c the LBS stops with the pursuing and the pressure that he/she isn't even aware that any is being applied to the WAS.

Sandi2

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!