Depression has set in.

[kat727]

My kids were my biggest support group. They saw the tears, the devastation I felt, how hard I was trying to keep our family together. We were together for nearly 21 years and had been married 19 years. I had to find my identity again without him.

I was already a pretty strong person but we had been together so long it felt as if our names went together like peanut butter and jelly. We have been divorced now for 7 months and while I still have frustrations over our current situation, I am ok.

I joined a book club. I went to some movies alone(yikes). I am starting to find the me that got lost in us being a couple. I found this site and posted and found friends. Honestly, this site helped me get out of my funk. Keep posting.

kat