In the start of this thread - the first titled "Man Am I not Detached" I described my frustration / temporary obsession with a card that I was sure my W had hand delivered to OM when she ran out suddenly at the end of the day.
Fortunately I never said anything or really let on that I was feeling anything (she may have noticed, but I could have been upset about anything.) Today, when I was leaving to go out for a while, my W handed me the card, addressed to a girlfriend of hers who lives out of state and said "while you are out can you mail this for me? I tried to make it to the post office before they closed yesterday, but wasn't fast enough..."
Shows that I am I a DAM. It just goes to show you how paranoid you can become if you are not detached and are worrying about your sitch.
Lesson Learned: -- Forget about what your S may or may not be doing. -- Put your focus where it should be - on yourself.
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.
