Yo stillloveshim , my wife doesn't want to " see " me at all . I've only seen her twice in 7 month and that was in court . She made the decision to detach prior to 6/14/08 then did what she did and just doesn't want to see or have anything to do with me or my family . Maybe like you stated before she's ashamed , maybe not and she is just really moving on . Thoughts . I wish I had 3 wishes .