K, First, belated Happy Birthday. I've been so busy of late there's not even a spare second some days. My apologies. I see you are putting up quite a fight here.
Originally Posted By: Kalni
I read it again. I think it describes me, or used to describe me, more than it describes him
K, I'm so glad you set this one to rest. You are indeed brilliant! The bitter accusatory WAW thinking will try to get you on board too - don't fall for it - you have your own heart and mind. BTW Passive-Aggressive has been removed from the DSM-IV - it is no longer a "legitimate" LABEL except in the pop-psychology world. In simple terms it means that when people are confronted with something unpleasant they often either fight or withdraw rather than assert themselves in a positive way. And we are all like that at times.