I knew exactly what you meant so no worries. Not being able to see each other is difficult. But here is the other thing to think about: The relationship is forever when you have kids. Lay low. Let her work this out for her. Do what you need to do for you right now. Maybe in a few weeks suggest family night. That's great for the kids to see you two getting along. Start small. You still have time. Create your plan of attack and I think the first thing is to let it all go.....then figure out how you can see her more often so she can see the new you with a new relaxed sensual side. Make her think "I don't want anyone else to have that! That's mine!"
