Don't assume he is going to do something. Then you just dwell on it and dread it coming, and it may never happen. Don't cross the bridge twice....cross the bridge when you get to it. It isn't easy to do, I know..believe me! But it is much easier on you if you can do it. Plus if you get to feeling he is going to do something you will react to things differently.
Don't try and talk anything out right now. Neither of you are in a place where something good will come out of it. Light friendly conversations are good. They will keep him in the right frame of mind and not dwelling on the problems that he is feeling.
Take care of yourself Regrets! You will get through this, and be a better you!
