Don't be afraid. The information you get may not be all roses, but it isn't meant to be horrible either. If it is all doom and gloom, discard it because it isn't coming from a higher frequency of love and light. My first reading was a gift. I was not a skeptic exactly but not really a believer either. My gift turned out to be an hour long session filled with the most loving feelings you can imagine. I look at it as my awakening to another dimension. I had always believed in Heaven, the spirit world, etc... but until that day, when I received confirmation after confirmation that this was my grandmother, my childhood friends father, my other grandmother, well let's just say this woman either had an extremely good private detective that spent years digging into my past before this or she was getting this stuff from the other side because she told about things that I had forgotten about. And this was an unasked for, unpaid for reading.
Additionally, the messages that come through, may or may not apply directly to what you are experiencing now. You may get stuff that you just sort of hold onto or even forget about until it happens and then you say "oh yea". Readers all do it differently. My gift, she asked NO questions. Did not ask if I had questions until the end, she just shared the info she got. At the end she asked if I had any specific questions and to be honest, she had already answered them. Another reader I know, she likes to hear you talk. It helps her get into your vibration. But she doesn't ask for a lot of detail. Just mostly simple yes and no but not too much more. If they want your life story first, not a good reader IMO. So if it is something you are open to, something you are curious about, even though most people will think you are crazy, go for it. Just remember that in many ways it is just like what you will here on here. Some of it will help, some of it won't and just because it comes from somewhere else, because of free will, it is not all written in stone. That is why you don't need to worry about what she will say.
If you focus on the past, you ruin the future. You can only live for today.
Don't assume he is going to do something. Then you just dwell on it and dread it coming, and it may never happen. Don't cross the bridge twice....cross the bridge when you get to it. It isn't easy to do, I know..believe me! But it is much easier on you if you can do it. Plus if you get to feeling he is going to do something you will react to things differently.
Don't try and talk anything out right now. Neither of you are in a place where something good will come out of it. Light friendly conversations are good. They will keep him in the right frame of mind and not dwelling on the problems that he is feeling.
Take care of yourself Regrets! You will get through this, and be a better you!
Hi Mt. every time the thought comes into my head I try to replace it with a positive one.
Nervous about tomorrow. Feel very shy, is that strange? I feel like I've been so open and honest about my whole life etc that now I feel a little vulnerable. Like I should have maybe not been so open.
Tis a strange feeling.
Reading why men fall out of love. This is going to be my last book buy lol. Amazon are making a fortune from me lol.
Told an old mate and she is being very rational about it all. Going to go see her Sat night. Her hubby is away so I can bubble in peace. She is not the type to allow you to dwell so maybe that is a good thing.
Lots of people from work now know and that is stressing me a little in case it gets back to him. I shouldn't have told the few I did. Think I should tell H that they know?
Bit ashamed that I told a couple of the girls in work now. I mean by that, that it;s not very fair on H is it. :-(
He just came in to tell me it's not going to work. Said nothing makes me happy, and not accepted he has been married.
I listened to him and he just said sorry.
I said don't be sorry but don't say this is because of your ex, it's not fair because I never brought her up.
I know I wasn;t supposed to but that is not right. I said don't throw away our marriage because of these excuses. I didn't cry, plead or pressure much.
He said we would talk again.
Still looks and sounds confused but maybe i'm in denial.
1 The ex 2 I'm never happy when he comes back from shops I complain that he has forgotten something?? Yeah he always forgot something, it became a joke 3. I've said nasty things last time last year when drunk. he can't remember what. not sure why I did that
4 other stuff but can't put his finger on it 5 immigrating was just him trying to make a change. He said can't you see that.
I feel so horrible. Have I really thrown away my marriage because of this. Not saying they are not valid. Why didn't he say something.
Why did he but me Ipod last week. Why the other day did he talk about furniture for the house.
Right, I've decided. I want to fight for this marriage more than I need to.
I spoke to him and said I'm sorry that I didn't letter you tell me 'what was in your head' his words, I said what I would like is for you to try if you can and explain why you think we can't move on from it. I said there are no right or wrongs and I really want to try understand from his point of view. He said ok, said he was going to gym and would get us bread and stuff for tea. I said that sounds lovely.
Will we set each other a 15 min or 30 min timer each? or go with the flow
Regrets, I don't really know if you want to have a R talk right now. You can tell he is confused, and having a R talk at this point...I don't know that they will help anything, and may just make things worse. He has no idea what is going on in his head, why he feels like he does. It is scary. My H says he has never not known what he wants and it doesn't make any sense to them why this is happening. Your H may not be able to give you any specific reasons either.
Just relax and take some deep breaths. Don't push anything.
